100 Self Care Quotes For An Instant Mood Boost & Self-Love!

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These 100 Self-Care Quotes Are Perfect For Sharing, So Perfect I Wish I’d Heard Them Sooner.

These self-care quotes are ones that I wish I would’ve heard sooner. However, they are quotes that I wasn’t capable of hearing as well as I am able to hear them today.

That’s the thing about life, everything you experience whether good or bad ultimately lends itself to a greater overall understanding and well-being.

Before self-care was a mainstream term, I simply referred to it as “putting my foot down.” And, the more I became comfortable “putting my foot down” or communicating my preferences, the more I saw my life change for the better. My actively prioritizing self-care is the basis for the freedom and empowerment I feel today and it unfolded one choice at a time.

Every time I say “No, not tonight…,” “No thank you…,” “I’m not comfortable with this…,” “This is what I need…,” “You don’t have to be or do anything for me…,” “This doesn’t feel right….,” “I’m not ready…,” “This feels amazing…,” “This feels like the right thing to do…,” and “I’m going to have a good time anyways…” when I it feels right to do so, I’m loving myself in a way I’ve never done before.

While I wish I would’ve been ready a long time ago to to stop waiting for others to return the love I freely gave, I am grateful that those lessons serve me well today.

So, without further ado…

self care quotes

“When I loved myself enough, I began leaving whatever wasn't healthy. This meant people, jobs, my own beliefs and habits - anything that kept me small. My judgment called it disloyal. Now I see it as self-loving.” 
― Kim McMillen

“I sometimes sit on my roof. Not to be closer to God. To be further from y'all.” 
― Darnell Lamont Walker

“Your time is way too valuable to be wasting on people that can't accept who you are.” 
― Turcois Ominek

“You are not broken. You are not a problem to be solved. Solving your “problem”, whatever you perceive your problem or problems to be, is not the key to happiness.” 
― Golda Poretsky

“If you don't love yourself, you won't be happy with yourself. If you can't love yourself, you can't love anyone else. You can't give the love you do not have. You can't make anyone love you without loving yourself first.” 
― Kemi Sogunle

“Don’t worry if people think you’re crazy. You are crazy. You have that kind of intoxicating insanity that lets other people dream outside of the lines and become who they’re destined to be.” 
― Jennifer Elisabeth

“Nourishing yourself in a way that helps you blossom in the direction you want to go is attainable, and you are worth the effort.” 
― Deborah Day

“Life is too short to waste any amount of time on wondering what other people think about you. In the first place, if they had better things going on in their lives, they wouldn't have the time to sit around and talk about you. What's important to me is not others' opinions of me, but what's important to me is my opinion of myself.” 
― C. JoyBell C.

“How would your life be different if…You stopped allowing other people to dilute or poison your day with their words or opinions? Let today be the day…You stand strong in the truth of your beauty and journey through your day without attachment to the validation of others” 
― Steve Maraboli,

quotes about self care

“I now see how owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do.” 
― Brené Brown

“Looking back you realize that a very special person passed briefly through your life and that person was you. It is not too late to become that person again.” 
― Robert Brault

“It took many years of vomiting up all the filth I’d been taught about myself, and half-believed, before I was able to walk on the earth as though I had a right to be here.” 
― James Baldwin

“We can't be so desperate for love that we forget where we can always find it; within.” 
― Alexandra Elle

“What is a Wanderess? Bound by no boundaries, contained by no countries, tamed by no time, she is the force of nature’s course.” 
― Roman Payne

“Detachment is not the absence of emotion, it is the process of becoming one with the Oneness that is the Universe. To be detached, is to realize that the fullness of all there is, is too much to react to with just one emotion, one thought, or any bias. To be detached, is to acknowledge all, without owning any of it. To be detached, is to summon forth the whole entirety of understanding, to the fragment that is the void.” 
― Justin K. McFarlane Beau

“It’s okay to not be perfect and not to have everything figured out. It’s okay to feel things that are shameful, hate, and feel guilty. I feel like the message we’ve tried to stand by, is that it’s basically okay to have scars and to show them. To show that you’ve been through all sorts of things and have come out a different and better person because of it.” 
― Hayley William

“You are here, alive and awake and for whatever reasons you have fought your battles, it's time to start focusing on what strengths pulled you up when the entire world had knocked you down. 
That's where the virtue in self grows.” 
― Nikki Rowe

To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don't need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself. "

– Thich Nhat Hanh

quotes on self care

“Self-care is never a selfish act - it is simply good stewardship of the only gift I have, the gift I was put on earth to offer others. Anytime we can listen to true self and give the care it requires, we do it not only for ourselves, but for the many others whose lives we touch.” 
― Parker Palmer

“Adoption is a lifelong journey. It means different things to me at different times. Sometimes it is just a part of who I am. Other times it is something I am actively going through.” 
― Kelly DiBenedetto

“Emergence emphasizes critical connections over critical mass, building authentic relationships, listening with all the senses of the body and the mind.” 
― Adrienne Marie Brown 

“You can't assume  I'm in bad shape just because I've run out of the energy to impress you.” 
― Curtis Tyrone Jones

“if you want to live an authentic, meaningful life, you need to master the art of disappointing and upsetting others, hurting feelings, and living with the reality that some people just won’t like you. It may not be easy, but it’s essential if you want your life to reflect your deepest desires, values, and needs.” 
― Cheryl Richardson

“We must treat ourselves with care, respect and compassion before we can effectively extend these things to others.” 
― Kristi Bowman

“I do not want to suppress the parts of me that most want to soar for fear of what someone else may think or because it may be too much or not worthy enough or not complete or brilliant or normal enough. Self-care also means honoring the truth within us. Set yours free.” 
― Ashley Asti

Bad feminism seems like the only way I can both embrace myself as a feminist and be myself, and so I write. I chatter away on Twitter about everything that makes me angry and all the small things that bring me joy. I write blog posts about the meals I cook as I try to take better care of myself, and with each new entry, I realize that I'm undestroying myself after years of allowing myself to stay damaged.” 
― Roxane Gay

“Take time off...

The world will not fall apart without you” 
― Malebo Sephodi

“Self-care is taking all the pressures you are facing right now, and deciding to which you will respond, and how.” 
― Imani Shola

“How necessary Sundays have become. I reach for them like sleeping lovers on the other side of my earth or my mattress.” 
― Darnell Lamont Walker

“What if no one is coming to discover your hidden talents, to acknowledge your untapped potential, to heal you, to save you from yourself? What if the saviour was always supposed to be you? What if that’s why it hasn’t worked out with anyone else?”
― Vironika Tugaleva

“Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious.  You get to choose how you use it.  You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won’t accept.” 
― Anna Taylor

“Self-care should include the cold shower as well as the scented tub.” 
― Mary Catherine Bateson

“Selfishness at the expense of others is bad. Self-care for the betterment of others is good.” 
― Richie Norton

“Seeking happiness is not the problem. The problem is that we often do not know where and how to find genuine happiness and so make the mistakes that cause suffering for ourselves & others.” 
― Sharon Salzberg

“Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing.” 
― August Wilson

“A fine glass vase goes from treasure to trash, the moment it is broken. Fortunately, something else happens to you and me. Pick up your pieces. Then, help me gather mine.” 
― Vera Nazarian

“That's what real love amounts to - letting a person be what he really is. Most people love you for who you pretend to be. To keep their love, you keep pretending - performing. You get to love your pretenses. It's true, we're locked in an image, an act - and the sad thing is, people get so used to their image, they grow attached to their masks. They love their chains. They forget all about who they really are. And if you try to remind them, they hate you for it, they feel like you're trying to steal their most precious possession.” 
― Jim Morrison

“Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself. We cannot outperform our level of self-esteem. We cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.” 
― Iyanla Vanzant

“There will always be someone willing to hurt you, put you down, gossip about you, belittle your accomplishments and judge your soul. It is a fact that we all must face. However, if you realize that God is a best friend that stands beside you when others cast stones you will never be afraid, never feel worthless and never feel alone.” 
― Shannon Alder


People may flatter themselves just as much by thinking that their faults are always present to other people's minds, as if they believe that the world is always contemplating their individual charms and virtues.” 
― Elizabeth Gaskell

“Most misunderstandings in the world could be avoided if people would simply take the time to ask, "What else could this mean?” 
― Shannon L. Alder

“Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.” 
― Norman Vincent Peale

“I used to be self -conscious about my height, but then I thought, fuck that, I'm Harry Potter.” 
― Daniel Radcliffe

“People who love themselves, don’t hurt other people. The more we hate ourselves, the more we want others to suffer.” 
― Dan Pearce

“I believe with all my heart that the cliches are true, that we are our own best friends and best company, and that if you're not right for yourself, it's impossible to be right for anyone.” 
― Rachel Machacek

“You may be the only person left who believes in you, but it's enough. It takes just one star to pierce a universe of darkness. Never give up.” 
― Richelle E. Goodrich

“The only person that deserves a special place in your life is someone that never made you feel like you were an option in theirs.” 
― Shannon L. Alder

“I am my own experiment. I am my own work of art.” 
― Madonna

“No matter how valuable you are and your ideas, fools will certainly play both of you down, so exclude yourselves from the inflammatory environs of fools.” 
― Michael Bassey Johnson

“Only those few who are able to surpass their fear of death completely can fully experience the highest forms of life; not the mundane life of the mortal, but the godly life of the resurrected.” 
― Zeena Schreck


“In essence, you are neither inferior nor superior to anyone. True self-esteem and true humility arise out of that realization. In the eyes of the ego, self-esteem and humility are contradictory. In truth, they are one and the same.” 
― Eckhart Tolle

“You may be the only person left who believes in you, but it's enough. It takes just one star to pierce a universe of darkness. Never give up.” 
― Richelle E. Goodrich, 

“Dance with the flowers of enlightenment—then watch as your mind and body blossom as you begin to harvest the fruits of self-progression and self-realization” 
― Natasha Potter

“When you concentrate your energy purposely on the future possibility that you aspire to realize, your energy is passed on to it and makes it attracted to you with a force stronger than the one you directed towards it.” 
― Stephen Richards, 

“What you think of yourself in your mind is nobody's business. Make it count.” 
― Majid Kazmi

“Stand up for who you are. Respect your Self and ignite the divine sparks in you. Access your powers. Choose your rights and work together with others to bring blessings into the lives.”
― Amit Ray

“Whatever you think the world is withholding from you, you are withholding from the world.” 
― Eckhart Tolle

“The possibility of the dream gives strength.” 
― Lailah Gifty Akita

“Man will never be stronger nor independent if he lives under perpetual motivation of others.” 
― Toba Beta

“The amount of time an individual may spend pondering over what his neighbor has and what he does not, is equivalent to the amount of time the individual has lost in becoming an equal to his neighbors.” 
― Victoria Addino


“You keep tabs on the victories of others but failed to notice that you just crossed yet another milestone. How do you hold up the light for others but turn it out when it gets to you.” 
― Chinonye J. Chidolue

“Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.” 
― Barack Obama

“Can't' is a petty word. Try a hundred times before you say this word because it is then you will realise you under-estimated your own self.” 
― Somya Kedia

“Your darkest shadows can only be less than your brightest light.” 
― Benjamin Aubrey Myers

The echo of your silliness defines the speed and distance of your awareness; - keep wishing through actionable failures that reasonably calculate your success.” 
― Kangoma Kindembo

“Though we all make mistakes, don't handicap yourself in difficult tasks; Self-sabotage is not a strategy. Sometimes all you need to do is protect yourself from your own self.” 
― Efrat Cybulkiewicz

“Our focus should be on making the most of our own lives, regardless of whether we start at the bottom or the top- not on envying the advantages and achievements of others.” 
― Yaron Brook

“Mark you, no Krishna can clear your eyes and make you look with a broader vision upon life in your march upward and onward, until the Self within you morphs into Krishna – until the Self morphs into Buddha – until the Self turns into Christ.” 
― Abhijit Naskar

“Most females are dissatisfied with how they look and battle with countless insecurities, not realizing that you look most beautiful when you think you don’t. I wish that women and girls all over the world knew just how uniquely beautiful that we ALL are. Loving yourself for who YOU are is empowering! There’s great freedom in being unbothered by other people’s opinion of you.” 
― Stephanie Lahart


“A cultural fixation on female thinness is not an obsession about female beauty but an obsession about female obedience.” 
― Naomi Wolf

“Happiness comes from living as you need to, as you want to. As your inner voice tells you to. Happiness comes from being who you actually are instead of who you think you are supposed to be.” - Shonda Rhimes 

“What editors are obliged to appear to say that men want from women is actually what their advertisers want from women.” 
― Naomi Wolf, The Beauty Myth

“As important as it is to have a plan for doing work, it is perhaps more important to have a plan for rest, relaxation, self-care, and sleep.” 
― Akiroq Brost

“Everybody sees me as this sullen and insecure little thing. Those are just the sides of me that I feel necessary to show because no one else seems to be showing them.” 
― Fiona Apple

“Value yourself for what the media doesn't - your intelligence, your street smarts, your ability to play a kick-ass game of pool, whatever. So long as it's not just valuing yourself for your ability to look hot in a bikini and be available to men, it's an improvement.” 
― Jessica Valenti

“The average personality re-shapes frequently, every few years even our bodies undergo a complete overhaul-desirable or not, it is a natural thing that we should change.” 
― Truman Capote

“I’d learned to avoid mirrors. They never seemed to show me what I wanted to see.” 
― Leigh Bardugo

“A cultural fixation on female thinness is not an obsession about female beauty but an obsession about female obedience." -Naomi Wolf” 
― Stacey M. Rosenfeld

“Every weight loss program, no matter how positively it’s packaged, whispers to you that you’re not right. You’re not good enough. You’re unacceptable and you need to be fixed.” 
― Kim Brittingham


“The Best Health Care Plan Is A Self Care Plan” 
― Nina Leavins

“If you think my waistline defines my worth, you are not worth my time anyways.” 
― Maria Elena

“Are we really going to spend our whole lives like this, feeling the wrong shape and the wrong weight in the wrong skin?” 
― Emma Woolf

“Weight loss is not the key to your dreams. The truth is there is no lock and the door is flimsy.” 
― Golda Poretsky

“How stupid that all I have to do is grow two squishy lumps and suddenly I'm man's best friend” 
― Christine Heppermann

“It's my choice to be beautiful. It's my choice to be ugly. And it's my choice to decided what those words actually mean.” 
― Virginia Petrucci

“So the question is, which boulder are you going to choose to roll? The "must lose weight" boulder or the "fuck you I will boldly, defiantly accept the body I've got and LIVE IN IT" boulder?” 
― Kate Harding

“I think you should leave [the scar]. [...] It's not as bad as you think. It will look better once it is healed. And besides, you already have a classical beauty. This gives you a romantic beauty as well.” 
― April Adams

“We survey lush landscapes with variations not dissimilar to a so-called "imperfect" female body with absolute pleasure -- say, an expanse of Irish countryside with grassy rolling hills. But is it really so much uglier when it's made of flesh instead of soil?” 
― Kim Brittingham

“Her toolbox is full. She has learned to not let go of the pieces of herself that she needs in order to be what someone else wants. She’s learned not to compromise. She’s learned not to settle. She’s learned, as difficult as it is, how to be her own sun.” - Shonda Rhimes


“I've always taken risks, and never worried what the world might really think of me.” - Cher

“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.” 
― audre lorde

“Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.” 
― Bell Hooks

“Do what you can, but also know your limits. Don’t forget to take care of you too.” 
― Akiroq Brost

“When the body forces you to STOP it's saying, hey buddy, you've gone too far.” 
― Jacqueline Escolme

“Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.” 
― Pema Chodron

“Self-care is not selfish. You cannot serve from an empty vessel.” 
― Eleanor Brownn

“Many of us follow the commandment 'Love One Another.' When it relates to caregiving, we must love one another with boundaries. We must acknowledge that we are included in the 'Love One Another.” 
― Peggi Speers

“Each positive thought, every vibrant attitude, all purposeful activities water the seeds for success along your path. You will encounter many seeds for success today. Pay attention to these and feed them appropriately. Then maintain their beautiful growth through conscious self-care.” 
― Rebecca Gordon

self-care quotes

“Every time you make a commitment to your own self-care, self-love and self-respect and then follow through, you build trust in yourself.” 
― Miranda J. Barrett

“Only bacteria thrive and live well in a poorly cared for body.” 
― Nina Leavins

“Self-care is how you take your power back.” 
― Lalah Delia

“When you can't find your purpose in a day, make it to look after yourself.” 
― Dodie Clark

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